The Opposite of a Selfie

by guest blogger / Terry Nightingale

When was the last time you lost something important to you?

In today’s passage we see an overlap between two important seasons in the New Testament story. Jesus is at the beginning of his ministry; John the Baptist is approaching the finish line of his. Both are baptising people. It looks like more people are going to Jesus.

Have you ever experienced a ministry coming to an end?

It can be tough. Many years ago, I faced the awful challenge of closing a Christian school. I had begun serving as principal when the school was small and struggling to attract new students. After some failed attempts to bring in new enrolments, the overseeing church felt that it was no longer something it could sustain and I had no choice but to bring Kingsway School to an end.

It was an extremely painful experience for the families involved. And for me.

In some ways, my identity was challenged. Who am I now? I had hoped to be a principal of a flourishing ministry. I had hoped this would lead to other opportunities, but it didn’t. I was not the successful leader I thought I would be. My dreams died with that school.

“He must become greater; I must become less”

When John the Baptist began to face the reality of diminishing popularity, with more people following Jesus than him, he could have felt discouraged. Deeply discouraged. Especially when others started noticing.

An argument developed between some of John’s disciples and a certain Jew over the matter of ceremonial washing. They came to John and said to him, “Rabbi, that man who was with you on the other side of the Jordan—the one you testified about—look, he is baptizing, and everyone is going to him.”
(John 3:25-26)